“Disability inclusion is important to me so we can share and spread knowledge and make the world a better place.”
— Ryan Lundy
Description of Ryan Lundy’s Headshot Above:
A headshot of Ryan wearing glasses and he has on a black suit with a black/red tie and red handkerchief sticking out of his pocket. Ryan has brown hair and brown eyes.
My journey started when I came into this world by the lovely parents of Sam and Marica Lundy on August 25th, 1985 born in cooper hospital in Camden New Jersey. My parents did not know what kind of kid they would get. Early one I was a tough baby struggling with things. My parents did not know that later that their son would have a nonverbal learning disability. At the age of 5, I was tested and officially diagnosed with a nonverbal learning disability. For those of you that do not know what a nonverbal learning disability let me explain it to you. A nonverbal learning disability is a neurological condition marked by a collection of academic and sometimes social difficulties.
Over the years I received occupational therapy and accommodations in school. I had a 504 which is a plan for students that need accommodations in regular education. This means I had many tutors, counselors, and academic advisors. School was not easy for me. I got taken advantage of a lot and bullied by kids. Many days I would come home and cry and think about why they are not including me. I would go to games and events by myself and then after them wonder why they would not invite me to the parties or outings. The kids would take advantage of me by me giving them rides and giving them, money and they would not give me any gas money. I was too scared to say anything in fear of them not wanting to hangout. That was my way with coping with the situations.
In college where I attended York College Of Pennsylvania I opened up. I got involved in Hillel, I was the Basketball Manager and joined Best Buddies. I would go to the games and parties with my roommates and friends. I still stay in touch with my college friends. It was a great experience!!!
Over the course of many years still living with a disability; I had learned many coping strategies through going through many therapists. The coping strategies are to write down things make a list on my phone and set reminders on my calendar. Also, do mediation, yoga, and deep breathing.
That is why I have compassion for the work that I do today. I never thought I would be working with individuals with disabilities, but that is my calling. Today I work as a teaching assistant at a special education school, work at the center for autism, recreation programs for two different townships and do community integration work. Also, I volunteer with the organization called Best Buddies, in the past coached Special Olympics.
At times things are still difficult for me. The way it is still difficult for me is sometimes I put all my energy into one thing for example a company job and if it does not work out than I get upset at myself and them for not giving me a chance. Another example is with certain references to movies I do not understand. The last way is trying to have a relationship with somebody, by I go out on dates and then get to like the person and they in the end do not like me. I feel I am making a difference in the world and people’s lives.
I want to reach as many people as I can and hope to inspire people will disabilities that they can do anything they want to do!!! If you want to connect with me, please feel free to reach out to me. My email address is email@example.com. I look forward to connecting with you!!!
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